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Is forgiving the hardest thing in the world to do? The answer may depend on what you’ve been through and various other reasons such as personal behavior. Only those who had been struggling with a past incidence that made you rethink about how you trust other people know how hard it is to forgive someone. Why is it hard? Because we ask ourselves the wrong question. When we think about forgiving, the addiction to the adrenaline provided by anger forces us to ask “why” when the actual question should have been “how”. Let me take you through a couple of points to ponder about forgiving.
It’s not about saying it out loud
If you think saying it to the other person is unnecessary, don’t
say it. It’s completely fine. It’s more about how you let it go out of your
mind. Simply write everything you want to tell to the other person in a piece
of paper and throw it away. You can even tell somebody else about it. Talk to
one of your friends or family about it. Just let it go.